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Jamie S. · 2h ago Behavior

Any tips for smoother transitions? My 5-year-old gets really upset when it’s time to stop a preferred activity, and I’m looking for ideas that actually work.

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We’re parents, too — navigating learning, communication, and sensory differences with our own child. We created Learning My Child to share what we’ve learned, the tools that help, and a supportive community for the journey.

What you’ll find here are the things that helped us through it: real tips, honest tricks, and the quiet truths we wish someone had handed us at the beginning.

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We're just parents who had no roadmap and no help — parents who spent hours researching late at night, trying to figure out what was happening with our child.

What you'll find here are the things that helped us through it: printable PDFs for at-home activities, real tips, honest tricks, and the quiet truths we wish someone had handed us at the beginning.

It doesn't matter if you're a mom, a dad, a grandparent, an aunt, a foster parent, or the village standing beside one. If you love this child — this is for you.

Knowledge is power. Sharing our experiences only spreads it further.

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Learning MY CHILD

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Real worksheets and visual supports — designed for the moments at home when you actually need them.

Print at home. Use anywhere. Share with caregivers, therapists, teachers, family.

Potty Training Guide
Routines & Self-Care

Potty Training Guide

A gentle, no-pressure roadmap. Readiness signs, step-by-step routine, bathroom visual schedule, and a printable checklist.

What's Expected — Developmental Milestones
Milestones

What's Expected

Sitting, standing, walking, and developmental milestones from 0–18 months. The chart we wish someone had handed us.

Practicing Sounds — Speech & Communication Worksheet
Speech & Communication

Practicing Sounds

A sound-by-sound guide with a Sound to Word Builder worksheet. Pair with your speech-language pathologist’s plan, or use it on your own to track what is working.

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OT & Fine Motor

Fine Motor Skill Checklist

A practical age-by-age checklist of fine motor skills — what to look for, what to practice, and what to bring up at therapy.

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Behavior

Understand the Behavior — Find the Why

An ABC chart (Antecedent → Behavior → Consequence) — the same tool a behaviorist uses, simplified for home. Two weeks of data shows patterns no one else can see.

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Learning MY CHILD

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Hi, I’m Sharmylla.

Michael’s mom. Writer from the middle of the journey, not from a place of having everything figured out.

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AUTHOR · MAMA · ENTREPRENEUR

Sharmylla Siew

I’m Sharmylla Siew, Michael’s mom, an entrepreneur, senior underwriter, and former Forbes Councils member. I’ve always loved writing, even before I called myself a writer: rewriting my friends’ breakup messages, drafting emails to HR, and creating procedures for the finance office. I’ve helped people find the words for years. Then motherhood gave me something important of my own to say.

I wrote Learning My Child from the middle of the journey, not from a place of having everything figured out. I know the worry of noticing something and second-guessing yourself. I also know the wonder of discovering how much your child understands, how they communicate, and who they are when you take the time to really see them.

This book is for the parents still asking questions and learning as they go. My son taught me that supporting a child isn’t about making them fit someone else’s idea of “normal.” It’s about learning who they are, meeting them where they are, and helping them grow as themselves.

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OUR BOOK

Learning My Child

A Parent’s Journey with Integrated Resources

Available in paperback through Amazon.

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Build Your Child's PECS Book

A custom communication book — designed around the things your child loves and asks for every day. We design it. We print it. We mail it.

My voice. My way. My book.

PECS Book example
Every PECS Book Includes

26 communication cards. Built in.

The base book ships with the foundation cards every child needs — the language for asking, naming, and saying yes, no, and "I'm done." This is what helps a child build from 1–2 word requests to 3–4 word sentences.

I want drink · snack · toy · more
I see dog · ball · book · outside
I need help · bathroom · break · hug
I feel happy · sad · mad · tired
Questions what? · where? · who? · why?
Quick replies all done · yes · no · I don't know

Plus the items YOU upload — the toys, snacks, books, Play-Doh, blocks, the specific things your child reaches for and asks for every day. That's what makes it theirs.

Choose Your Tier

How many custom items?

$30
Starter Book
  • 26 standard communication cards
  • 5 custom item cards you upload
  • Spiral-bound, laminated, ring-bound
  • Printed and mailed to your door
Best for: starting out, or if your child is just beginning to point/request.
$50
Full Book
  • 26 standard communication cards
  • 10 custom item cards you upload
  • Spiral-bound, laminated, ring-bound
  • Printed and mailed to your door
  • More options to expand from "I want toy" → "I want the red car"
Best for: a child who's already pointing or making 1–2 word requests.
Build Your Book

Tell us about your child's favorites.

Choose items your child constantly requests — the toys, foods, Play-Doh, blocks, snacks, books, comfort items they reach for every single day. The more specific, the better.

Upload your child's items 0 / 5

For each slot: upload a clear photo of the item, then give it a title (what your child calls it) and a short description (what they use it for).

No payment yet. After we receive your photos, we'll send a proof for your approval before any charge.

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Here's what happens next:

  1. We'll email you a proof of your PECS book and the custom item cards within 2–3 business days.
  2. Once you approve the proof, we begin printing and binding your book.
  3. We'll notify you when your book is ready to ship.
  4. Just before shipping, you'll receive an invoice via email.
  5. Your book will be on its way as soon as the invoice is paid.

Thank you for trusting us with this. Your child's voice matters — we'll do this right.

— Sharmylla & Mike

Learning MY CHILD
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